Play Party Bliss with Alex S. Morgan

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When December 29, 2019
7:30 pm - 11:59 pm


Iron Giant Loft
1080 23rd Avenue
Oakland, CA 94601
United States


This is an experiential play party for the sensually adventurous. This special evening welcomes all genders and orientations 18+.

This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the play party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to a play party before.


We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy. A safe and sacred container for exploring tantalizing touch in a relaxed, sex-positive space. This play party encourages your curiosity about taking your own sensual play space to the next level.

The atmosphere is consent-centered; you get to decide how you engage at every step, including giving and receiving touch. All attendees ask before touching anyone they don’t know well, and no is always a complete sentence.

The evening is a celebration of imagination and curiosity, so you may experience as many flavors as you dare. Come dressed in something that makes you feel special, decadent, and sexy!

Let Alex guide you through a series of conscious connective touch interactive games as we begin to take a room full of strangers on an intimate exploration of themselves through one another.

Then, let Alex lead you through a welcome circle where a room of yummy people have a chance to relax, open up, get curious about one another, and wind up on the same page, having the opportunity to be seen, heard, and understood in ways you might have never expected.

What is Play with a capital “P”?

Play with a capital “P” is whatever it means to you. You are invited to co-create whatever feeds your soul. Participation (also with a capital “P”) can mean many things. You’ll see people chatting, flirting, snuggling, making out, exploring energy play, having kink scenes, and engaging in all kinds of sexual play as well as cuddling up. watching hot scenes, and getting inspired. You get to decide how you engage.

Whether it’s a longtime fantasy or a favorite treat, group play is welcomed in this space. You’re welcome to experience solo play, partnered play, and threesomes/moresomes in whatever combinations make you happiest.

This is a sensual space where participants are encouraged to explore themselves and others in ways that are stimulating, nurturing, exciting, safe and fun!

This is the Play party you want to come to if you’ve never been AND this is the Play party you want to come to if you want to experience how to take generating safe play space for you and your loved ones to the next level.


You are sensually, erotically, and emotionally savvy enough to Play nicely with others. You’re a good sharer, you take good care of your toys, and you use your words. 😉 You are somebody who knows your own wants and boundaries and can communicate them clearly… and/or you’re someone willing to work and explore these areas for your own growth and enjoyment! You treat yourself and others with respect and kindness.

If you’re reading this, thinking, “I would love to come, but I don’t want to play,” please come and enjoy the pressure-free company of like-minded individuals and exit whenever you wish. Really. There will be no pressure for you to do any activity at this party at any time.

Our biggest request is that you come with a fun-loving, warm, caring, open-minded, generous, thoughtful, compassionate, non-judgmental attitude and that you conduct yourself with the highest level of integrity possible.

This will be a very chill, fun, playful event where sex and nudity will most likely occur. Come relax. Come sip on something non-alcoholic while you chat and flirt. Come smooch. Come play. Come watch and get inspired.

All genders, orientations, bodies, and races welcome 18+. Come as you are and have a great time!


Doors open at 7:30 PM and CLOSE AT 8:00 PM. BE ON TIME as it is essential to have everyone present for the opening circle. There will not be anyone admitted after the doors are closed to preserve the safety of our space.

The Welcome Circle is what we use to introduce ourselves to one another, have a safer sex conversation, share any boundaries and relationship agreements people should know about and get all comfy and ready to Play.

PLEASE text Alex at (510) 480-0235 if you’ll be up to 10 minutes late, but please just be on time!

There will be an optional closing circle at midnight.


Iron Giant Loft, 1080 23rd Ave, Oakland, CA 94606

BART accessible; free on-street parking. Spacious, private live/work loft in a residential building.


First floor, no stairs or steps. All gender, single-occupant restroom (no transfer bars). Plenty of couch, chair, and cozy mattress space available.

The home is low-fragrance; please avoid using scented products or applying fragrance prior to the play party so that everyone can play comfortably. There are two cats in residence; they will be in a closed back room during the event. There is a HEPA air purifier in the event space itself to reduce allergens.

Text or email Alex if you have any questions or concerns: (510) 480-0235 /


Wear something that makes you feel confident and sexy! Fetish wear to dressed-up/dapper to casual style all welcomed. Some dress for self-expression, some dress for comfort, and some wear what they feel cutest in. Please be street-appropriate entering the event.


  • Your sexy self and whatever food and non-alcoholic drink you might want for the evening. (No alcohol or substances, please. We like our Playmates to be present and capable of connection.)
  • Bring along whatever toys and safer sex accessories you desire—condoms, gloves, lube, dental dams—whatever you might need to create that perfect evening. (We’ll have supplies available in the space just in case, but your favorites are always nice to have!)
  • Please use unscented products prior to the event so that people who have difficulty with scents can also play comfortably. Oh, and of course, please bring a Playful attitude and an open heart and mind.

This will be a very chill, fun, playful event where sex and nudity will most likely occur. Come relax. Come sip a glass of something non-alcoholic or a cup of tea. Come smooch. Come play. Come give and/or receive your favorite types of touch. Hope to see you there!


$28 women & non-binary, $50 men, $65 couples

Please note that tickets to this event often sell out early; if tickets sell out, there will be none available at door. Save your spot now:


Register Here

Worried about how the charge will show up on your card, or want to register online without using a PayPal account? Click here for step-by-step info.

If something comes up and you can’t attend, just email Alex to ask for rollover credit to a future event.

Text or email Alex if you have any questions or concerns: (510) 480-0235 /



Alex S. Morgan is a sexuality, gender, and relationship coach, a sexual rights advocate, a sacred intimate, and a professional switch (both dominant and submissive). Working directly with clients’ sexualities since 2004 has given Alex a deft sensitivity to the needs of people exploring new facets of themselves and an understanding of the power of connection in both our public and private lives.

A believer in continuing education for all adults exploring sex, gender, and relationships, Alex presents internationally on relationships, kink, sexuality, gender, and related policy issues at venues ranging from private workshops to public organizations, Stanford to SXSW. They offer workshops, facilitated events, and inservice trainings by request.

Alex is available for individual and couples coaching or sacred intimate sessions at home in the San Francisco Bay Area, in the DC area regularly, or worldwide via phone and video call.

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