Sacred Kink Immersion (Oakland)

When July 27, 2019
12:00 pm - 4:30 pm


Iron Giant Loft
1080 23rd Avenue
Oakland, CA 94601
United States


This event weaves together modern Tantra and kink in a safe, structured environment. It begins as a guided experiential workshop incorporating sensuality, kink, mindfulness, and ritual, and transitions into a facilitated play party.

This space welcomes all genders and orientations and is consent-focused.  You always have the ability to set limits and negotiate the touch you give/receive.

Experience exquisite surrender… the thrum of power and energy coursing through you as you take someone (or are taken!) right up to the edge… the dance of pleasure and sensation, dominance and submission, primal passion and divine union.

Nudity, sensual, and sexual touch are optional at this event—but if you’d like to play in that playground, you can explore those options with one or more partners. (All touch is negotiated between participants.)

Come ready to explore breathwork, waking up the energetic body through the meridians and directed chakra touch, “painting” with different types of sensation, primal play exercises, using impact play and other rhythmic, intense forms of stimulation to achieve trance states, energetic sex, tying up/restraints, erotic ritual body worship, sensory deprivation, and other forms of sensation and power play.

We’ll demonstrate how BDSM can help you create powerful, connective experiences of sacred sexuality, and how NeoTantric principles and practices can take your kinky encounters to new heights.


We’ll begin with powerful boundary-setting practices to create a safe container of conscious communication and sacred intent, so that you can truly surrender to your inner sense of play, reverence, and wonder. Then, you will go on a journey of power and sensuality, through the heart of connection culminating in a state of ecstatic bliss.

Alex will lead you through paired and triad exercises such as erotic feeding, sensation play, touching for your pleasure, sound bath, tease and denial… and so much more. Learn how empowering it can be to really ask (or beg!) for exactly the touch you would like. Experience the powerful, sacred gift of surrender—and of holding another’s complete trust.

Fixed binaries are purely optional in this fluid space; you’ll have the opportunity to explore many roles and configurations throughout the event. You can stay with the same partner(s) or mingle as you like.

This event is open to all genders and orientations. If you prefer to be touched only by partners of a specific gender, you can bring a partner of that gender with you and stay with them for any or all of the exercises.


  • Wear clothes you can move in that make you feel sexy and sacred! I recommend dressing in layers so that you can undress to your comfort throughout the event. Fetish attire is welcome, as long as you’re discreetly attired/street appropriate as you enter and exit.
  • Please arrive fragrance free so that everyone can play comfortably.
  • You’re welcome to bring your favorite toys/gear to add to your experience during the open play time toward the end of the event.
  • Bring a water bottle or other sealable drink container. The loft has filtered water at the tap, plus a selection of teas.
  • Optional: If you know you’ll want food to ground with, bring something to nibble on.
  • Non-alcoholic drinks only in this 18+ space (kombucha ok). No substances, please; we want everyone to be fully present and capable of connection.
  • We’ll have safer sex supplies (latex & latex-free condoms, nitrile gloves, lube) available in the space, but feel free to bring your own for your personal use.

Doors open at 12:00. Doors will be locked at 12:30 PM to create a sacred container where we are all on the same page. There is no admittance once doors are locked.

This event is a mind-, body-, and heart-blowing experience honoring the divinity within us by simply bringing our senses into action. This will be a very chill, fun, playful event where sex and nudity will most likely occur.

All genders, bodies, races, and orientations welcome. 18+. Come as you are and have a great time!


Iron Giant Loft, 1080 23rd Ave, Oakland, CA 94606

BART accessible; free on-street parking. Spacious, private live/work loft in a residential building.


First floor, no stairs or steps. Plenty of couch, chair, and cozy mattress space available. All gender single occupant restroom. No transfer bars in restroom; space otherwise accommodates chairs, walkers, and power scooters.

The home is low-fragrance; please avoid using scented products or fragrances prior to the workshop so that everyone can play comfortably. There are two cats in residence; they will be in a closed back room during the event. There is a HEPA air purifier in the event space itself to reduce allergens.


$35/individual, $60/pair


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If something comes up and you can’t attend, just email Alex to ask for rollover credit to a future event.

Text or email Alex if you have any questions or concerns: (510) 480-0235 /


Alex Sebastian Morgan is a sex, intimacy, and relationship coach, a sacred intimate, and a professional switch (both dominant and submissive). Working directly with clients’ sexualities since 2004 has given them a deft sensitivity to the needs of people exploring new facets of themselves and an understanding of the power of connection in both our public and private lives.

Alex has practiced energy work for 22 years, integrating meditation, trance, and journey work with magickal practices both traditional and modern. Their sacred sexuality trainings include Barbara Carrellas’ Urban Tantra Professional Training Program, Shawn Roop’s Tantra Counselor Course, and both studying and co-facilitating with Monique Darling.

Alex is passionate about sharing the power and tender vulnerability that come from blending kink and sacred sexuality, and has been teaching NeoTantric practices from an LGBTQI+ inclusive perspective since 2012. They present internationally on relationships, kink, sexuality, gender, and related issues at venues ranging from private workshops to public organizations, Stanford to SXSW.

Alex is available for individual and couples coaching or sacred intimate sessions face to face at their Bay Area practice, in the DC area each month, or worldwide via phone and video call. Follow Alex S. Morgan on Facebook, on Twitter as @Alex_S_Morgan, on Instagram, on FetLife, or at